Communication
is a massage from a communicator to a communicant that can be happened for at
least two participants. Communication must be effective to avoid misunderstanding.
There are five steps in communication process: sensing, interpreting, feeling,
intending and expressing; which also include empathy and sympathy.
Five technics that we can use in
effective communication:
1.
Good
listeners.
2.
Use
your wise to react your opposite communicator.
3.
Find
your similarity (es) with your opposite communicator.
4.
Do
not monopoly the communication.
5.
Avoid
debating with your opposite.
There are four basic of personalities:
1.
Choleric : direct,
focused, tough, analytical, logical and strategic.
2. Sanguine : spontaneity, optimism, enthusiasm, high
energy, mental flexibility, novelty seeking, impulsiveness and curiosity.
3.
Phlegmatic : nurturing, sympathetic,
agreeable and emotionally expressive.
4.
Melancholic : tend to be calm,
loyal and orderly, just as their personality name sounds.
Three basic
communications styles:
1.
Aggressive.
2.
Passive.
3.
Assertive:
the most recommended. Know when we need to be aggressive or passive.
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